The show does acknowledge it's grey, but I think it's also that we're sort of supposed to be seeing things from Kiera's POV, even when we're in scenes with other people, and to her, these things are right and normal. And all she wants is to get home to her son and husband, and back to the world she knows, which she doesn't want changed at all. She likes that world.

It makes for kind of a fascinating perspective, really.